The Brain Scrub
Are you a target in parental alienation, are you trying to live your best life, is stuff getting in the way? The Brain Scrub focuses on mental health and I share how I am coping during these unpredictable times by focusing on self-care, improvement and building community. My goal is to support you in living your best life by sharing what I have done during my journey as an alienated parent. This podcast explains my path to living a more authentic life by taking a courageous look at my self and focusing on what I can control, me. I am not an expert and the tools and techniques I share are based on my research, practice and ideas. For mental or physical health challenges, please seek the advice of a qualified practitioner. Absolutely seek professional help to deal with trauma, depression, personality disorders, etc. Support is out there - get it.
Episodes
![Letting go: For real this time. Part 1](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
Letting go: For real this time. Part 1
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
This episode is based on the wonderful work of John Purkiss, author of "The Power of Letting Go". I will walk you through the steps to let go and my hope is that whatever is holding you back, no longer does. For me, it's my attachment to having a relationship with my son...for starters.
![Transitioning our Identity](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Friday Nov 03, 2023
Transitioning our Identity
Friday Nov 03, 2023
Friday Nov 03, 2023
In this episode, I chat with a dear friend, Colleen, about the challenge of transitioning our identity whether due to retirement, work pressures or life circumstances. Colleen shares a bit about her challenges and what she has learned about living life in a powerful way.
![Still trying to let go of that Alienated Child?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Friday Oct 27, 2023
Still trying to let go of that Alienated Child?
Friday Oct 27, 2023
Friday Oct 27, 2023
Recently I fell in love with the Youtube Channel "The Anti-Alienation Project". The young lady has a range of videos where she shares her perspective from that of an Alienated Child. She and a recent conversation inspired this episode.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfzOR3LLqL0fMtz_J_o4vjw
![Take time to listen - to you.](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Take time to listen - to you.
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Busy? Feeling overwhelmed? Gadgets, social media, tv, video games, and the list goes on of what we spend our day listening to. What about taking the time to listen to you instead of searching for busyness outside of ourselves.
![Are you defensive?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Friday Oct 20, 2023
Are you defensive?
Friday Oct 20, 2023
Friday Oct 20, 2023
Defensiveness destroys countless lives and relationships. Lower our defense system and we may create peace rather than fear. I believe a lack of an ability to be open and honest with people is creating the mental health crisis that is growing in our world. Fear is the root of all evil.
![Growing up with an alcoholic](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Friday Oct 06, 2023
Growing up with an alcoholic
Friday Oct 06, 2023
Friday Oct 06, 2023
Are you hypervigilant? This episode may explain why.
![Our drive and loving our shoes](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Friday Sep 29, 2023
Our drive and loving our shoes
Friday Sep 29, 2023
Friday Sep 29, 2023
This is the final in the series based on the work of Dr. Paul Conti and the Huberman Lab. In this episode I put everything together in how the reflection work done so far leads to choice. We need to generate the choice and how does one do that? You are about to find out...
![Self-Defense and the consequence](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Sep 26, 2023
Self-Defense and the consequence
Tuesday Sep 26, 2023
Tuesday Sep 26, 2023
I am continuing to chat about the work of Doctor Paul Conti and my own journey of self-awareness. In this episode, I discuss our defense mechanisms and how they impact our behaviours.
![Evaluating the trauma experience](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Sunday Sep 24, 2023
Evaluating the trauma experience
Sunday Sep 24, 2023
Sunday Sep 24, 2023
Part 2 of this mini-series based on the work of Dr. Paul Conti, gets into better understanding our trauma and the beliefs it may have created. I touch on our defense mechanisms as well. By knowing this, we are better able to manage our automatic reactions.
![Agency by getting conscious of the unconscious](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14031441/brainscrubnew_9dr52z_300x300.jpg)
Saturday Sep 23, 2023
Agency by getting conscious of the unconscious
Saturday Sep 23, 2023
Saturday Sep 23, 2023
The Huberman Lab Podcast continues to be a gift in my life. In the last three episodes, he interviewed Dr. Paul Conti about Mental Health and the power of self awareness. This is part 1 of a mini-series I will do that reflects on his work and how it can be applied to my behaviours and beliefs.